Questions of Life
well penning my very first blog. Been feeling rather down recently. Reason… well something to do with the very meaning of life.
Why do people get married? Government says it’s for the purpose of procreate so that there will be the next generation to run the country… Some for the sake of getting a flat…. others… well only God knows.
Being in my profession, I’ve seen the dark side of humanity… wat was once a loving couple turns to the worst of the enemy. Tons of ppl complaing about their ex spouses doing all sort of things that they feel to be wrong or evil…. responding to calls about husbands beating up their wives or children…. or wives abusing their husbands or child…. Why is it that wat once was LOVE has turned into something so ugly??? Is it really human nature to destroy or simply that there is not enough communication?
Recently it came to my attention that among my friends, there are a few whereby they are meeting difficulties in there marriage or relationships. One of them has been married for a couple of years with a child in tow. Husband was not happy with the way how his wife view in holding a job with a stable income and the wife angry that her husband is controling who she can go out with and who she can’t.
Y did these problems surface only after marriage? Shouldn’t they have gotten to noe about each other before they walk down the aisle? Or did they believed that after marriage the other party will come to terms with wat their own expections of the others to be? Humans always take chances in life but very often then not they are not able to see clearly the situation when there are other factors to cloud their judgement.
How does one noes that they are in love? What are the signs? What excatly runs in the person’s mind? Do we really understand the nature of love? Recent years, there has been a hot debate about leaglising marriage between couples of the same sex. Some are for it some are against it. Religions will not stand it yet in the reality world they exsist and even co exsist with the religions cause religions preaches foreberance to all and not to discriminate. The world is simply full of contridactions. Love turns to hate… It also invoke jealously, suspisions, anger… Emotions that destroy not only their partner but also themselves. Yet ppl continues down this doomed path.
I thot that I had found the purpose in my life but some how or rather it seems that the purpose has turned it back to me… What irony!? I’ve also thot myself to be an understanding person and because of the environment that I’ve been brought up in… With parents that are not talking to each other and not even sleeping in the same room, I’ve promise myself that I’ll not walk down the same path as my parents and to love my wife whole heartily. I believed that I’ve done that but it seems that my wife does not share the same sentiments. The very reasons of our marriage has simply came slamming back at my face and Love…. watever of it has simply vanish into the thin air.
Well at least it seems so to me. Will end off here for the time being…. Many thanks to those who spends time to read this rather long and boring blog. Feel free to drop me any commets or thoughts that u might have.
September 12th, 2005 at 8:10 am
We can only do as much. We can only think or say that much.
What is unsure has to be clarified. What is messed up has to be fortified.
You’re a strong man. You know you are.
You CAN make it right.
Time, patience, care and communication are of the essence.
Take care.